6 Safe and Sexy Christmas Gifts for Him

Why not give your love-life a boost this Christmas with sexy gifts for him this year.

I'm not talking tacky, x-rated gifts that chip away at true intimacy. I'm talking about gives that are safe and sexy.

Here are my top six picks for sexy Christmas gifts for him.

#1 Sexy Christmas Thongs (for you to wear)

Why not spice up Christmas day night with these cuties? Even if you're not a thong kinda gal, just wearing them for a bit (when he knows you've put them on) can be a great turn on.

Got some extra time alone together? This pair are a great way to say, “My gift to you is me.”

#2 A Flirty Apron

I absolutely love Flirty Aprons. Okay, I love aprons in general. Pick a style you love and tell him you'll wear it (and nothing else) while prepping your stay-home-date-night dinners.

And, even on nights your cooking for the whole family a nice apron can make you feel pretty, and sexy.

#3 Hotel Stay – without kids

Gift him a one night's stay at a local hotel and an overnight babysitter. Then, order in and enjoy the night together. Take along number 1 and number 4.

Let's face it, most of us get in a sex routine. You lay here, I go there, don't fall off the bed. But finding new sex positions can be a bit of a challenge when you don't want to look at other people naked in a book. It's like inviting someone else into your bedroom. This book is the perfect solution. Why? Because there are no people, just two passionate primates demonstrating some spicy positions. Did I mention they are sock monkey? Hilarious!

The descriptions are non-pornographic too. “This is a challenging position – the girl sock monkey must be firmly stuffed if she is to enjoy the pleasures of the Foot Yoke without loosing her balance….or her stuffing.”

#5 What I Love About You Book

If your spouse's love language is words of affirmation than this book will light his fire. This fill-in-the-blank book lets you tell him all the ways you love him. Be as thoughtful, creative, and sexy as you can.

#6 Boost Your Libido eCourse

Okay, okay so technically this is a gift for you but he will reap the benefits so it's a win-win for both of you! This course will teach you what libido is–and how you can start getting excited about sex in your marriage again.

Boost Your Libido is a really fun course, because Sheila is awfully funny. I had a chance to meet her a few years ago at a local seminar she did. And each module comes with a practical assignment that can help you see immediate results. You don’t have to wait until you finish the course to start your libido revving up!

I’m passionate about marriage. I think Christians should have the best marriages possible. But too often we miss out because we get too busy, we feel distant, or we just plain don’t understand how we work.