Surely no woman in her right mind does a read-aloud with an erotica novel for her boys. Hopefully no woman in her right mind lets erotica lay on the coffee table next to the newspaper and the family Bible. That would be wrong. Hopefully most little boys whose moms are reading erotica don’t have the faintest […]
Stop Calling It A Winkie! 4 Good Reasons for Teaching Kids Proper Body Part Names
Teaching kids proper body part names should be high on the parental to do list. In our family, the opportunty to do this came easier than I thought. I use the word penis more in a week than most people do in a year. Then again, I’m a boymom. Yes, that’s one word. It seems my […]
God’s Opinion About Sex
There’s one opinion that doesn’t change with age, generation or style: God’s. You may not realize it but God has an opinion and it’s the one that counts. No, not about your underwear (well, maybe your underwear but that’s another post), God’s opinion about sex is Truth and we need to know, understand and adopt […]
He Won’t Stop Watching Porn, Now What? 6 Truths You Need To Know
What do you do when your husband won’t stop watching porn? This is an issue many marriages face, even Christian marriages. When your husband won’t stop watching porn you are faced with several tough truths. Some give the advice to just ignore it, turn your head, or accept what he does as his hobby. Other say […]
After Shock: 7 Things You Must Do After You Discover He’s Been Using Porn
That immediate moment after porn use is revealed or discovered is one of shock. Once porn use is out in the open the hurricane of thoughts and emotions is overwhelming. The future health of your marriage depends on how you handle this situation. Porn has ended many marriages but it does not have to end […]
The Gender Identity Crisis Is Not the Problem, It’s the Answer
The gender identity crisis happening among young men and women is alarming, disturbing and sad. (Hopefully) well-meaning parents are working hard to allow their children to decide what their identity is and adults in their 50’s are spending hundreds of thousands of dollars to change their earth suits in order to finally identify with who […]
Christian Youth Culture and Sexuality
I entered the doors of the Giant Center in Hershey Pennsylvania with anxious anticipation of impacting youth with the truth of God’s love and the amazing craftsmanship of our sexuality. Table display set. Books ready. Prayers released……………. Long minutes passed as we awaited the thousands of youth gathering for this annual youth event. I’m not […]
3 Ways to Move Past Your Past
Spring is here and I’m getting ready for my annual countdown…..the countdown until Winter begins again! Thanks to Google, I know that, as of the day I wrote this, we have 270 days until Winter begins. I’ve written before about my love of winter and why it’s so special to me. Spring is a different story, […]
Should You Be Watching Porn As A Couple Plus Tips For Improving Your Sex Life
Getting caught with a stash of porn can be a marriage killer. But what about watching porn as a couple? Should married couples watch porn together? The reasons to watch porn as a couple seem to be noble, well-founded and solid. Couples and even research groups sight reasons to watch porn as couple as: Closeness […]
Think Your Past Will Always Haunt You?
Have you ever felt so dirty, so worthless, so repugnant that it makes you want to throw up? I have. Shortly after feeling so close to my husband, so connected the waves of guilt and shame would wash over me like boiling lava. Only my pillow would see the tears or run quickly to the […]